Loving Jesus as He Loves Us – Funeral of Charlotte Schoombee
John 11:20-22 Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met Him, but Mary was sitting in the house. 21 Now Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But even now I know that whatever You ask of God, God will give You.”
Even on a day marked by loss, the service began with a reminder of the great privilege believers have: to praise and glorify God in all circumstances. While others may experience only sorrow and hopelessness, Christians are reminded that God prepares His children for the day they will meet their Saviour. This hope transforms mourning into a moment of deep gratitude for the salvation found in Jesus Christ.
Charlotte Schoombee’s life was remembered with thankfulness. From a young age, she showed determination in seeking the Lord and allowing Him to guide her life. Her concern for others, especially her parents, and her tender heart toward God were evident. Her upbringing, shaped by devoted parents who served faithfully and sacrificially, also played a significant role in her spiritual journey. Her life stands as a testimony to how God can use a willing and surrendered heart for His glory.
A key encouragement was directed especially to the young: the words of Jesus, “Let the children come to Me, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.” A tender and responsive heart toward God in one’s youth is of great value. The choices made early in life can shape one’s eternal destiny. Charlotte’s life reflected such a choice—a life rooted in love for God and for others.
Drawing from John 11, the account of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus, the message highlighted both human regret and divine truth. The story of a grieving woman who wished for just one more day with her deceased husband illustrated how deeply regret can weigh on the heart. Many people carry similar burdens—wishing for another opportunity to correct past mistakes. Yet Scripture reminds us that God’s thoughts and ways are far higher than ours, and His purposes extend beyond our understanding.
The relationship between Jesus and the family of Lazarus demonstrated a mutual love—one that should challenge every believer. Not only did Mary, Martha, and Lazarus love Jesus, but He also loved them deeply. This reflects the greatest commandments: to love God with all one’s heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love one’s neighbour as oneself. True faith is not merely a confession but is revealed through a transformed life marked by love.
A strong warning was given against complacency in one’s faith. Accepting Jesus as Saviour is not a superficial or once-off experience; it is a life-changing encounter that leads to a daily walk with Him. Genuine salvation results in a change of heart, mind, and conduct. Without this transformation, one must question the authenticity of their faith.
The reality of death calls for preparation. Each person must ask: “Am I ready? Do I truly love Jesus?” Regret, if left unresolved, can burden the soul. While some consequences of past actions may remain, forgiveness and healing are found in Christ. Believers are urged to come humbly to the cross, confess their sins, and live in continual repentance. True repentance is not merely sorrow for sin but a complete change of heart and life, brought about by the Holy Spirit.
Quoting Christian voices such as Richard Trench, Vance Havner, and A.W. Tozer, the message emphasised that repentance involves a deep transformation—far greater than prolonged remorse. God desires a changed life, not just regretful feelings.
In remembering Charlotte, gratitude was expressed for a life that bore the fruit of the Spirit. Such a life surpasses all earthly achievements—greater than fame, riches, or success. Her testimony points to what truly matters: a life lived in fellowship with God.
The message concluded with the powerful words of Jesus in John 11:25: “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, shall live.” This promise offers hope and comfort. For those who believe, death is not the end but the beginning of eternal life with God.
The prayer at the end pleaded that God would bring healing and comfort to grieving hearts. In Christ’s resurrection power, believers can triumph even in death, knowing that true life continues beyond this world. May all be encouraged to live in obedience to Him, holding firmly to the hope of eternal life.
